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Full Disclosure workbooks for couples going through therapeutic disclosure

Companion workbooks by Dr. Janice Caudill and Dan Drake for both partners going through a therapeutic disclosure after sexual betrayal – from deciding whether to disclose all the way through healing afterward.

What is the Full Disclosure book about?

Full Disclosure is a set of four companion workbooks by Dr. Janice Caudill and Dan Drake for couples going through a therapeutic disclosure after sexual betrayal. Three volumes guide the betrayed partner before, during and after the disclosure. The fourth helps the disclosing partner prepare an honest, complete account.

The workbooks are meant to be used together, with a therapist guiding the disclosure. Each partner does some exercises alone, and the two make the key decisions together, such as how the disclosure will go and when the impact statement is shared.

Written by Janice Caudill, PhD, CSAT-SPsychologist and founder

About Dr. Caudill

Designed to be used together

Disclosures are painful and, if mishandled, can cause more, often unnecessary, damage. With information and exercises that prepare you for each hurdle, these workbooks give both of you a way to find your footing during a very hard time.

Your workbook and your partner's workbook are designed to be used together. Some exercises in one correspond to exercises in the other. You will prepare some tasks separately and make the critical decisions together, such as designing the disclosure, sharing the impact statement, and coordinating boundary and coping plans.

I hope these resources bring healing to you and to your relationship as you recover from the impact of sexual betrayal.

Janice

The four Full Disclosure workbooks fanned out: three volumes for the betrayed partner and one for the disclosing partner

For the betrayed partner

Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal is a series of three volumes that walk you in step with your partner through the whole disclosure process.

  1. Cover of Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal, Volume 1 for Partners

    Volume 1: before disclosure

    How a disclosure can help you heal

    Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal, Volume 1 for Partners

    By Dr. Janice Caudill, PhD, CSAT-S, and Dan Drake

    Have you discovered your partner’s sexual secrets? Are you looking for a safe way to learn the extent of the betrayal? Volume 1 explains what a full disclosure is and helps you decide whether it is right for you. Through examples, questions, and the shared experiences of others, it offers a supportive way to approach a complex, difficult process.

    $15.95 on Amazon (list price)

  2. Cover of Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal, Volume 2 for Partners

    Volume 2: preparing for disclosure

    Preparing for disclosure on your terms

    Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal, Volume 2 for Partners

    By Dr. Janice Caudill, PhD, CSAT-S, and Dan Drake

    If you cannot heal your heart and relationship without knowing the whole truth, and you have decided on a professionally guided disclosure, Volume 2 helps you prepare so your needs are met. You define your needs and how to have them fulfilled, your boundaries and how to stand firm in them, and how to look after yourself. It helps you get through the painful experience of learning the whole truth and grow stronger along the way.

    $15.95 on Amazon (list price)

  3. Cover of Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal, Volume 3 for Partners

    Volume 3: after disclosure

    Post-disclosure healing

    Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal, Volume 3 for Partners

    By Dr. Janice Caudill, PhD, CSAT-S, and Dan Drake

    Have you completed disclosure and feel devastated, unsure how to put yourself back together? Volume 3 helps you heal yourself and your relationship afterward: making sense of what you learned in the disclosure and writing your partner impact statement. It shifts the focus from understanding your partner’s story of betrayal to understanding your own, while your partner uses the process to strengthen their recovery and grow in empathy.

    $24.95 on Amazon (list price)

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For the disclosing partner

One workbook that takes a step-by-step approach to telling your partner the truth about your sexual past.

  1. Cover of Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal

    Before, during, and after disclosure

    How to share the truth after sexual betrayal

    Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal

    By Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill, PhD, CSAT-S

    This workbook breaks the disclosure into manageable steps, from preparing your account to restoring a foundation of truth in your relationship. Through examples, questions, and the experiences of others who have gone before you, it helps you build a new life and relationship based on honesty and integrity. It is designed to be used with your partner’s companion workbooks.

    $29.95 on Amazon (list price)

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Going through a disclosure

Want help with your disclosure?

Tell us your role and where things stand right now. We'll talk with you about readiness, safety, and preparation, and walk you through the process and the cost before you decide.

Written by

Dr. Janice Caudill, PhD, CSAT-S, with Dan Drake.