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Why Did I Believe the Lies? Understanding the Truth Bias
“As relationships become more intimate, people develop a truth bias in which they are more likely to judge their partners as truthful and less likely to detect deception.” In hindsight,… Read more
What Does Intimacy Anorexia Have to Do with Sex Addiction and Why Should Partners of Sex Addicts Care?
Intimacy anorexia is an extreme form of love avoidance in which emotional, spiritual, and/or sexual intimacy is actively withheld from the primary relationship partner. So what does that have… Read more
Partners of Sex Addicts: Sex Addiction Induced Trauma
I recently came across an article in The National Psychologist by Dr. Omar Minwalla. Dr. Minwalla is a psychologist, clinical sexologist and clinical director of The Institute for Sexual Health… Read more
Partners of Sex Addicts: Feeding My Spirit
Betrayal Takes Many Forms Some of us have been betrayed with pornography or prostitutes, fantasies with which we can’t compete. For some of us, the other woman takes on… Read more
Partners of Sex Addicts: Betrayed Again
Betrayed again. I am tired. I am alone. I am so lonely. I am hurting. I am cut open and bleeding all over the floor. I am invisible. I have… Read more
Love Avoidant Strategies in Intimacy Anorexia: Money Control
Intimacy anorexia is a form of love avoidance in which the anorexic systematically deprives his or her spouse of emotional, spiritual, and/or sexual intimacy. The end result for the… Read more
Sex Addiction Recovery: Dealing with Your Wife When She Is Emotionally Triggered
Early recovery from sex addiction is a tumultuous time, your recovery foothold is shaky at best. During this period your partner is eaasily emotionally triggered. So how do you maintain… Read more
The Serenity Room: Take the Risk
“Come to the edge” We can’t. We’re afraid. “Come to the edge.” We can’t. We will fall! “Come to the edge.” And they came. And he pushed them. And… Read more
The Serenity Room: Path to Destiny
Watch your thoughts, for they become words.Watch your words, for they become actions.Watch your actions, for they become habits.Watch your habits, for they become character.Watch your character, for it becomes… Read more

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