Resources
Full Disclosure Workbooks
The Full Disclosure volumes set are his and hers series of companion workbooks co-authored by Dr. Janice Caudill and Dan Drake. The workbooks help couples through the entire disclosure process following sexual betrayal. Disclosures are painful and, if mishandled, can create additional, often unnecessary damage. With a combination of information and exercises that prepare you for disclosure hurdles, these workbooks will give both of you resources to find your footing as you safely navigate a challenging time in the wake of betrayal.
Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal
A Complete Guide to Preparing for Full Disclosure
This workbook takes a comprehensive approach to coming clean with your sexual past to your partner. The workbook helps you break down the entire process, offering a step-by-step approach to sharing your past and restoring the foundation of truth in your relationship.
Through examples, questions, and the shared experiences of others who have gone before you, this workbook has created a way for you to navigate a complex, difficult process. Designed to be used with your partner’s companion workbooks, Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal, this resource can help you build a new life and relationship based on honesty and integrity.
Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal
The Partner series is a compilation of three separate volumes that walk you in lockstep with your spouse through the entire disclosure process.
Volume 1 for Partners: How A Disclosure Can Help You Heal
Have you discovered your partner’s sexual secrets? Are you looking for a way to seek the extent of the betrayal you’ve experienced in a safe way? If you’re looking for a guide to help you understand your needs, this first of three workbook series is designed to help you get started.
In Volume 1, you will learn what a Full Disclosure is and determine if it’s right for you. Volume 2 will help you prepare for the Full Disclosure. Volume 3 will help you heal post-disclosure. Through examples, questions, and the shared experiences of others, Volume 1 provides a supportive way for you to navigate a complex, difficult process. Designed to be used with your partner’s companion workbook, Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal, this resource can help you heal after sexual betrayal.
Volume 2 for Partners: Preparing for Disclosure on Your Terms
Are you unable to heal your heart and relationship from betrayal trauma without knowing the whole truth? Have you determined that you need a professionally-guided disclosure but are unsure how to prepare so your needs are addressed? If any of those questions apply, this workbook series is for you.
Volume Two for Partners assists you in preparing for disclosure on your terms by defining your needs and how to get them fulfilled, your boundaries and how to stand firm in them, and your healing by how you prepare yourself. This step-by-step guide not only helps you survive the painful experience of coming into the whole truth but also supports you to grow stronger along the way.
Used in companion with your spouse’s version, Full Disclosure: How to Share Truth After Sexual Betrayal, these parallel workbooks guide each of you through a therapeutic disclosure with a common understanding, common language, and a common goal of restoring the foundation of truth in your relationship.
Volume 3 for Partners: Post Disclosure Healing
Have you completed disclosure and feeling devastated and wondering how to put yourself back together? Need help in figuring out how to transform pain into healing?
Volume 3 will help you navigate the healing process for both yourself and your relationship after the disclosure, including making sense of the information you learned in the disclosure and creating your Partner Impact Statement.
Created in concert with your spouse’s version, Full Disclosure: How to Share Truth After Sexual Betrayal, Volume 3 shifts the focus from understanding your spouse’s story of betrayal – his true story – to understanding your own.
While you are guided on how to put the puzzle pieces together and practice self-compassion, your spouse will use the Full Disclosure process to strengthen his recovery and begin cultivating the flower of empathy.
Please note that your workbook and your spouse’s workbook have been designed to be used together. Some of the exercises in your workbook will correspond to exercises in your spouse’s and vice versa.
You will be working together to repair your relationship, whether preparing some tasks separately in your respective workbooks or other critical decision points together, such as designing the disclosure, sharing your impact statement, and coordinating boundary and coping plans.
We hope these resources bring healing to you and to your relationship as you recover from the impact of sexual betrayal.
Dr. Janice Caudill’s Videos & Podcasts
Conversations: Disclosure with Dr. Janice Caudill
In this conversation, Janice Caudill joins Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein to discuss therapeutic disclosure in recovery from sex addiction.
Betrayal Recovery Radio
Disclosing Truth after Betrayal with Dan Drake, Janice Caudill & Dr. Jake Porter
Disclosing Truth after Betrayal with Dan Drake, Janice Caudill & Dr. Jake Porter
APSATS Conference Promo: Somatic Experiencing in Betrayal Trauma
Dr. Janice Caudill introduces her topic for the APSATS 1st annual conference.
Disclosing Truth after Betrayal
with Dan Drake, Janice Caudill & Dr. Jake Porter
Betrayal is traumatic, and those who have been betrayed by partners living secret lives of sexual addiction deserve to be empowered and supported with knowledge and resources to allow them to move from shock through grief and into growth. On Betrayal Recovery Radio, the host, Dr. Jake Porter, lays out important topics for both sex addicts and their betrayed partners through conversations leading to hope and healing.
Betrayal Recovery Radio is the official podcast of The Association of Partners of Sex Addict Trauma Specialists (apsats.org).
The Living Truth Podcast
How Full Disclosure Can Benefit Couples in Recovery with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill
When sexual secrets disrupt a marriage there is often a debate: To Tell or Not To Tell. How much does the betrayed spouse need to know to heal and rebuild the relationship? Kristin interviews CSATS and Partner Betrayal Specialists Dan Drake & Dr. Janice Caudill about the benefits & best practices of Full Disclosure in this episode!
Thanks for Sharing Podcast with Dr. Janice Caudill
Preparing for Disclosure after Sexual Betrayal
In this episode of Thanks for Sharing Jackie (Pack) talks with Dr. Janice Caudill and Dan Drake about their workbook that helps prepare couples for disclosure. Disclosure can be an important part of couples recovering, healing, and moving forward and it can also go poorly.
Their workbook and thoughts shared in this episode are geared to give couples and those guiding the disclosure options to consider and make disclosure successful.
The Living Truth Podcast
Intimacy Anorexia with Dr. Janice Caudill
Intimacy Anorexia (IA) is the deliberate withholding of emotional, sexual, and/or spiritual intimacy from one’s partner. This deeply painful condition within a marriage is not uncommon but rarely correctly diagnosed as IA is a newly recognized condition that many people helpers don’t yet recognize.
Join Kristin as she interviews Dr. Janice Caudill whose expertise is in working with sexual addiction, partner trauma, and Intimacy Anorexia. Even through the devastation of these three issues there IS hope to overcome and heal! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.
The Living Truth Podcast
Disclosure with Janice Caudill
In this conversation, Janice Caudill joins Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein to discuss therapeutic disclosure in recovery from sex addiction.
How To Tell Her About The Porn: Full Disclosure
with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill
What is full disclosure? When, why, and how should I reveal sexual secrets to my wife? In this episode, disclosure experts Dan Drake and Janice Caudill walk us through the process of full therapeutic disclosure from beginning to end. You’ll learn how to restore truth in your relationship in a way that is healing rather than harmful.
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