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Full Disclosure Workbooks

The Full Disclosure volumes set are a his and hers series of companion workbooks co-authored by Dr. Janice Caudill and Dan Drake. The workbooks are designed to help couples through the entire disclosure process following sexual betrayal. Disclosures are painful and, if mishandled, can create additional, often unnecessary damage. With a combination of information and exercises that prepare you for disclosure hurdles, these workbooks will give both of you resources to find your footing as you safely navigate a challenging time in the wake of betrayal.

Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal

A Complete Guide to Preparing for Full Disclosure

This workbook walks you through a comprehensive approach to coming clean with your sexual past to your partner. The workbook helps you break down the entire process, offering you a step-by-step approach to sharing your past and restoring the foundation of truth in your relationship. Through examples, questions and the shared experiences of others who have gone before you, this workbook has created a way for you to navigate a complex, difficult process. Designed to be used with your partner’s companion workbooks, Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal, this resource can help you build a new life and relationship that’s based on honesty and integrity.


Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal

The Partner series is a compilation of three separate volumes that walk you in lockstep with your spouse through the entire disclosure process.

Volume 1 for Partners:  How A Disclosure Can Help You Heal

This Have you discovered your partner’s sexual secrets? Are you looking for a way to seek the extent of the betrayal you’ve experienced in a safe way? If you’re looking for a guide to help you understand your needs, this first of three workbook series is designed to help you get started. In Volume 1, you will learn what a Full Disclosure is and determine if it’s right for you. Volume 2 will help you prepare for the Full Disclosure. Volume 3 will help you heal post-disclosure. Through examples, questions, and the shared experiences of others, Volume 1 provides a supportive way for you to navigate a complex, difficult process. Designed to be used with your partner’s companion workbook, Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal, this resource can help you heal after sexual betrayal.

Volume 2 for Partners: Preparing for Disclosure on Your Terms

Are you unable to heal your heart and relationship from betrayal trauma without knowing the full truth? Have you determined that you need a professionally-guided disclosure but are unsure how to prepare so your needs are addressed? If any of those questions apply, this workbook series is for you. Volume Two for Partners assists you in preparing for a disclosure on your own terms, by defining your needs and how to get them fulfilled, your boundaries and how to stand firm in them, and your personal healing by how you prepare yourself. This step-by-step guide not only helps you survive the painful experience of coming into full truth, but also supports you to grow stronger along the way. Used in companion with your spouse’s version, Full Disclosure: How to Share Truth After Sexual Betrayal, these parallel workbooks guide each of you through a therapeutic disclosure with a common understanding, common language, and a common goal of restoring the foundation of truth in your relationship.

Volume 3 for Partners: Post Disclosure Healing

Are you planning for a Full Disclosure but afraid of the aftermath? Completed one and feeling devastated and wondering how to put yourself back together? Need help in figuring out how to transform pain into healing?  Volume 3 will help you navigate the healing process for both yourself and your relationship after the disclosure, including making sense of the information you learned in the disclosure and creating your Partner Impact Statement. Created in concert with your spouse’s version, Full Disclosure: How to Share Truth After Sexual Betrayal, Volume 3 shifts the focus from understanding your spouse’s story of betrayal – his true story – to understanding your own. While you are guided how to put the puzzle pieces together and practice self-compassion, your spouse will use the Full Disclosure process to strengthen his recovery and begin cultivating the flower of empathy.


Please note that your workbook and your spouse’s workbook have been designed to be used together. Some of the exercises in your workbook will correspond to exercises in your spouse’s and vice versa. You will be working together to repair your relationship, whether preparing some tasks separately in your respective workbooks or other critical decision points together, such as designing the disclosure, sharing your impact statement, and coordinating boundary and coping plans. We hope these resources bring healing to you and to your relationship as you recover from the impact of sexual betrayal.


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