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Partners of Sex Addicts: What’s in a name? Just ask a ‘Co-Sex Addict’
Co-sex addiction, or co-addiction, is a term coined to describe the behavior of person addicted to a sex addict: in theory, the addict is addicted to sex, and the co-sex… Read more
Partners of Sex Addicts: Dealing with the Web of Lies
Remember George? Check out this clip. The partner or wife a of a recovering sex addict is frequently confused by the apparently sincere promises to change from the addict… Read more
Create Your Own Serenity Room: Transforming Yourself Through Self-Care
Self-care is essential part of recovery. You may be at a time of particular pain in your life; a time you think of as your monsoon season. Your typical freeze response doesn’t numb you… Read more
Partners of Sex Addicts: Rebuilding Trust
The recovering sex addicts I counsel often ask what their partners need to rebuild trust in the wake of sexual betrayal. My initial answer is pretty obvious: TRUTH, in combination… Read more
The Serenity Room: Embrace the Struggle
Embracing the Struggle: The Chrysalis Along a dusty road in India there sat a beggar who sold cocoons. A young boy watched him day after day, and the beggar finally… Read more
Love Avoidant Strategies in Intimacy Anorexia: The Blame Game
Does your mate hear even minor feedback as if it’s an attack? And respond by going on the full out attack of you? Does he block your efforts to… Read more
Love Avoidant Strategies in Intimacy Anorexia: Feeling Lock Down
Feeling locked down? Hard to remember the last time your mate voluntarily shared feelings with you? Or genuinely seemed to care about yours? Pay an emotional price after sharing… Read more
Partners of Sex Addicts: Not Knowing
The number one trauma trigger I hear about from partners of sex addicts is not knowing – not knowing what the truth is, not knowing how far his behavior has… Read more
Partners of Sex Addicts: Dealing with Betrayal Trauma Triggers
See Understanding Betrayal Trauma: Trauma Triggers for Partners of Sex Addicts for further discussion of betrayal trauma. As a wife or partner of a sex addict or intimacy anorexic,… Read more
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