Let your band of brothers help you walk the path back to sexual integrity. Let your recovery community encourage, inspire, challenge, and hold you accountable for change.
Does your battle also include intimacy anorexia?
Wife no longer willing to tolerate being deprived of intimacy?
Finding more solidness in your sexual struggles and ready to dig deeper?
Group 1: Alternating Tuesdays 5:30-7:00 PM CST, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Group 2: Alternating Tuesdays 7:30-9:00 PM CST, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Group 3: Alternating Wednesdays 7:00-8:30 PM CST, Hybrid Coaching: In-Person and Online
Group 4: Alternating Thursdays 7:30-9:00 PM CST, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Group 5: Alternating Saturdays 11:30-1:00 PM, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Structured, work-group format; participants use a workbook specifically designed for IA recovery. Most members will also be in recovery from sexual or pornography addiction. Builds in support, intimacy psychoeducation, skill building, skill practice, and accountability.
Learn how to help your partner heal.
Learn and practice empathetic attunement and compassion for your spouse to help her and your relationship heal.
Learn and practice coping skills for communication and intimacy deficits.
Learn trigger-busting strategies to defuse your spouse’s anger, decrease her emotional intensity, and help rebuild trust.
Build and practice empathy skills that help rebuild trust.
Participate in a group of support, feedback, and accountability.
Workbook based groups makes recovery tasks more concrete, learnable, and achievable.
Space is limited and an initial intake evaluation process is required to determine if this group is a good fit for your needs.
Battling with sexual secrets? Struggling to overcome pornography or other unwanted sexual behaviors that compromise your integrity?
Harness the power of a band of brothers in creating and executing your battle plan.
The Facing the Shadow group will help you achieve sobriety and deep your recovery. The group provides the tools, strategies and knowledge necessary to stop unwanted sexual behavior. Your band of brothers will provide support and accountability for taking action as you implement your recovery blueprint.
Understanding of why you haven’t been able to stop on your own.
Indicators of addiction and the specific nature of you sexually compulsive template.
Your cycle of feelings-thoughts-behaviors that keeps you trapped.
Underlying issues that will have to be addressed in conquering your sexual strugglese.
There are decades of research on sexual recovery. We know the path to sobriety and a deeper recovery: accept the 30-Task challenge and get started, with support of your group buddies.
Set boundaries that are personal to your sobriety.
Identify cravings and how to resist them.
Analyze your pattern of acting out, whether it be sexual or with other addictive substances or behaviors.
Build and enforce an ongoing defensive system for preventing relapse.
Address the roots that lead to acting out behaviors as a way of managing your life.
Overcome changes in the brain that work against long-term recovery.
Take ownership of the harm done to loved ones.
Learn about the impact of partner betrayal trauma on your spouse. Begin to respond in ways that help your partner heal.
Meet the needs in your relationship in healthy ways, rather than medicating as an alternative to medicating with acting out behaviors.
This group is led by Dr. Anthony Walker. Anthony is a seasoned recovery coach who works both nationally and internationally. He is a Help.Her.Heal facilitator and is ERCEM (Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model) trained.
He brings particular expertise in the impact of addiction and betrayal on your spouse and family and incorporates that as part of the recovery group focus.
Alternating Thursdays 7:30-9:00 PM CST, Online only
Starting January 2025
Space is limited and an initial intake evaluation process is required to determine if this group is a good fit for your needs.
If you have experienced betrayal in its many forms, sex or pornography addiction, infidelity, intimate deception, gaslighting, intimacy deprivation, and all the other ways you have been disempowered by the person you thought you could trust to protect your heart, our open arms are waiting for you.
Empowerment goes beyond just surviving a shattered heart, beyond healing from betrayal trauma to the act of empowering yourself. Empowerment is defined as the process of becoming stronger and more confident, especially in claiming your rights by finding and cultivating your inner power. We are a tribe of women seeking our truth. Our tribal mission is healing partners, one heart at a time. Our quest – Hope, Healing, Empowerment. Come join our tribe.
Group 1: Wednesdays (weekly) 11:00-12:30 PM CST, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Group 2: Alternating Thursdays 7:00-8:30 PM CST, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Group 3: Alternating Wednesdays 7:00-8:30 PM CST, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Empowerment work group for women healing from a loved one’s infidelity, pornography, or sex addiction – a tribe of betrayed women, hurting women, angry women, grieving women, sassy women, awakening women, healing women, transforming women, women ready to rise like the Phoenix into the inner power of their own light.
Empowerment Benefits
Uses a partner betrayal trauma model of recovery.
Helps you understand the nature of your spouse's betrayal and its traumatic impact on you.
Provides practical tools for recovery and coaching on how to use them.
Helps you understand the relational trauma you are struggling with and provides the support of the tribe in working through the emotional fallout.
Increases knowledge of the impact of betrayal and addiction on your relationship as well as guidance on setting and maintaining more effective boundaries.
Builds in support and accountability to help you make and sustain change.
90-minute sessions.
Requires an initial intake evaluation process prior to admission to the group.
Members can join at any time.
Space is limited and an initial intake evaluation process required to determine if this group is a good fit for your needs.
Feeling married and alone in your relationship?
Still reeling from the legacy of sexual betrayal, yet finding the longer term intimacy deprivation to have done more damage?
Group 1: Alternating Tuesdays 7:00-8:30 PM CST, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Group 2: Alternating Wednesdays 7:00-8:30 PM CST, Hybrid: In-Person and Online
Empowerment work group for women healing from a loved one’s pornography, sex addiction, or intimacy anorexia – a tribe of betrayed and intimacy-deprived women; a tribe of women whose depth of betrayal and abandonment may not be entirely recognized in traditional partner groups; a tribe of women who know that their path to soaring is more complicated.
Empowerment Benefit:
Uses a partner betrayal trauma model of recovery.
Recognizes patterns of intimacy deprivation associated with intimacy anorexia.
Helps you understand sexual and intimacy anorexia betrayal and abandonment and its traumatic impact on you.
Provides practical tools for recovery and coaching on how to use them.
Helps you understand the relational trauma you are struggling with and provides the support of the tribe in working through the emotional fallout.
Increases knowledge of the impact of betrayal, addiction, and intimacy anorexia on your relationship as well as guidance on setting and maintaining more effective boundaries.
Builds in support and accountability to help you make and sustain change.
90-minute sessions..
Members can join at any time
Requires an initial intake evaluation process prior to admission to the group.
Starting Monday, May 26, 2025 11:00 AM - 12:30 PM CST, Online
A supportive and empowering space for Spanish-speaking, bilingual, and "Spanglish"-speaking Latina women who have experienced betrayal—whether through infidelity or marriage to someone with problematic sexual behaviors. This group provides a culturally sensitive environment for healing, connection, and growth.
Latinas Unidas is a compassionate support group created for Latina women who have experienced betrayal trauma—whether through infidelity or a partner’s problematic sexual behaviors. As first-generation daughters of immigrant parents, Spanish-only speakers, bilingual women, or those navigating two cultures, you deserve a community that understands your unique challenges.
Here, you’ll find a safe and supportive space to share your story, connect with strong, like-minded women, and embark on a journey of healing and growth. Through discussions and shared experiences, we stand together in strength, sisterhood, and resilience. You are not alone—we heal together.
