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What is the Difference Between Big T and Little t Trauma?

Learn the differences between Big T and little t trauma

Betrayal Trauma: Understanding Your Trauma Triggers

Betrayal Trauma: Understanding Your Trauma Triggers Trauma Triggers Trauma triggers are anything that serves as a reminder of painful events in your life. They can be people, places, things, or… Read more

Partners of Sex Addicts & Infidelity Survivors: Are You Stuck in a Victim Stance?

Partners of Sex Addicts & Infidelity Survivors: Are You Stuck in a Victim Stance? The legacy of any trauma is a sense of victimhood. Whether from a car wreck, or… Read more

Surviving Betrayal Abandonment: Infidelity Survivors & Partners of Sex Addicts

Surviving Betrayal Abandonment: Infidelity Survivors & Partners of Sex Addicts  Abandonment feels like death. Or worse. In fact; for many of us, death sometimes sounds like a better alterna­tive than… Read more

The Gaslighting Pill in Infidelity & Sex Addiction: Separating Out the Kernel of Truth

The Gaslighting Pill in Infidelity & Sex Addiction: Separating Out the Kernel of Truth Gaslighting is an insidiously effective tool of manipulation, most often used by the betraying spouse to… Read more

Empowerment Toolbox: Empower Yourself with the Wonder Woman Pose

Empowerment Toolbox: Empower Yourself with the Wonder Woman Pose   Ever notice Wonder Woman’s confidence? How she conveys her sense of power? How you know her strength is about more… Read more

Making Life Work for You

 Life will work for me when I realize . . . the only walls, locked doors and prisons in my life are the ones that I have built. Mental Health… Read more

Partners of Sex Addicts: Sex Addiction Induced Trauma

I recently came across an article in The National Psychologist by Dr. Omar Minwalla. Dr. Minwalla is a psychologist, clinical sexologist and clinical director of The Institute for Sexual Health… Read more