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Partners of Sex Addicts: Starting Today’s Resolutions

Partners of Sex Addicts: Starting Today’s Resolutions If the past year has been one filled with disbelief, pain, sorrow, fear, or pockets of white hot anger, you may be looking… Read more

Is Your Online Friendship Too Friendly?

  Take the following quiz to determine if your online friendship has become too friendly.  Do you find yourself coming to bed later at night because you are chatting online?Do… Read more

Why Did I Believe the Lies? Understanding the Truth Bias

“As relationships become more intimate, people develop a truth bias in which they are more likely to judge their partners as truthful and less likely to detect deception.” In hindsight,… Read more

Partners of Sex Addicts: Feeding My Spirit

  Betrayal Takes Many Forms Some of us have been betrayed with pornography or prostitutes, fantasies with which we can’t compete. For some of us, the other woman takes on… Read more

Betrayal Trauma: The Intimacy Formula

Intimacy = Honesty + Vulnerability Dr. Janice Caudill, founder and Clinical Director of McKinney Counseling & Recovery, is a psychologist who specializes in helping individuals and couples heal from sex… Read more

Create Your Own Serenity Room: Transforming Yourself Through Self-Care

  Self-care is essential part of recovery. You may be at a time of particular pain in your life; a time you think of as your monsoon season. Your typical freeze response doesn’t numb you… Read more

Partners of Sex Addicts: Rebuilding Trust

  The recovering sex addicts I counsel often ask what their partners need to rebuild trust in the wake of sexual betrayal. My initial answer is pretty obvious: TRUTH, in combination… Read more