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What is the Difference Between Big T and Little t Trauma?

Learn the differences between big and small traumatic events.

Partners of Sex Addicts & Infidelity Survivors: Are You Stuck in a Victim Stance?

Partners of Sex Addicts & Infidelity Survivors: Are You Stuck in a Victim Stance? The legacy of any trauma is a sense of victimhood. Whether from a car wreck, or… Read more

Sex Addiction Recovery: Understanding Discovery

Sex Addiction Recovery: Understanding Discovery “Discovery” is a term that has come to mean the event or period of time in which a sex addiction is discovered by a partner… Read more

Starved for Love: Intimacy Deprivation in Sex and Porn Addiction

Starved for Love: Intimacy Deprivation in Sex and Porn Addiction One of the least discussed but most painful experiences for partners of sex or porn addicts is the deep level… Read more

Betrayal Trauma: Understanding Your Trauma Triggers

Betrayal Trauma: Understanding Your Trauma Triggers Trauma Triggers Trauma triggers are anything that serves as a reminder of painful events in your life. They can be people, places, things, or… Read more

Emotional Starvation: When Your Marriage Snuffs Out Your Spirit

Emotional Starvation: When Your Marriage Snuffs Out Your Spirit Emotional starvation is a silent epidemic in our country. Thousands of spirits are dying a slow, painful death everyday. They are… Read more

Intimacy Anorexia & Sex Addiction: When You Are Living Off Crumbs

Intimacy Anorexia & Sex Addiction: When You Are Living Off Crumbs After counseling recovering sex and porn addicts, partners of sex addicts, and couples trying to rebuild trust in the… Read more

Sex Addiction Recovery: Navigating Your Partner’s Valentine Boundaries

Sex Addiction Recovery: Navigating Your Partner’s Valentine Boundaries   Navigating the Valentine’s Day triggers your partner is experiencing can be tricky for if you are trying to put your marriage… Read more

Infidelity Survivors and Partners of Sex Addicts: Bill of Rights

Infidelity Survivors and Partners of Sex Addicts: Bill of Rights   New Year’s resolutions can be difficult in the wake of discovering betrayal in a relationship. Finding the energy to… Read more

Infidelity Survivors & Partners of Sex Addicts: Dealing with Discovery Trauma

Infidelity Survivors & Partners of Sex Addicts: Dealing with Discovery Trauma Discovering the sexual betrayal of a spouse is more than just shocking; it is a form of shock trauma…. Read more